Maybe It’s a Sign. Maybe It’s Just Life.
I often get confused when it comes to signs, intuition, and serendipity. How do you actually know? How do you know if something is truly a sign, or if it’s just a coincidence that we’re trying to give meaning to because we want it to mean something? And how do you even use intuition effectively? Because here’s the thing: ever since I was younger, I’ve always felt that when I meet a guy, I somehow know pretty early on whether there is potential or not. Not necessarily whether he’s the one , but whether there is something there worth exploring. I could meet someone and almost immediately feel, Nope. This isn’t going anywhere. Or I could meet someone and think, Hmm. There might be something here. And more often than not, I was right. But is that intuition? Or is it simply experience? Pattern recognition? Knowing myself well enough to recognize what I want—and what I absolutely don’t? And maybe this is something that changes as we grow older. Because perhaps th...